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Plot Twist: Home Is My Favorite Destination
Another Year, More Lessons, More Peace. My birthday just passed, and celebrating my birthday is something I used to do aggressively years ago. I would also be out of the country, somewhere relaxing for a week, living my best life. The other thing I realized is that the place where I live my best life is at home. I have built my life that way, I am fulfilled and excited to do things for myself and my body that don’t include getting on a plane and guessing if the hotel would be
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3 days ago3 min read


Crying is Part of the Process
By now, my NFL Fan Series has been announced. It looks exactly how I envisioned it, and it is always amazing to record and collaborate with everyone. What you don’t see is how hard and taxing it is for me on the backend. The amount of sleep I lose, the research I put into each team, and the scheduling and rescheduling are always a lot, and unfortunately, I end up with 32 people per team. Some teams, I can reach out to 25 people before I get a response, and sometimes people r
reallyflawed
May 92 min read


The Cost Nobody Talks About
The cost of creating content is so much more than money; although money does help, it is the time, effort, and energy spent thinking things through that are the costs nobody talks about. Before anyone wonders, yes, I use AI for certain things and processes, but it helps with backend tasks, which is great. However , since I am a front-facing channel, I need to be on camera, and it is very important for me to talk about things in a way that not many people do. Because of this,
reallyflawed
Apr 172 min read


What Content Creation Really Feels Like (for me)
Being a content creator is such an interesting experience because the way I do things involves a process I follow, and that process helps me be confident and make sure I am talking about what I want to talk about AND what is relevant. When I get a vision for something, the hardest part for me is that I enjoy the editing process. It allows me to be creative and to challenge myself in ways other things don’t. It is like having a difficult conversation with a friend; now everyon
reallyflawed
Mar 312 min read


Exhaustion Isn’t an Excuse; It’s the Test
I am exhausted , and some people might read that and say, “Well, go to sleep,” but for me, these are the moments I dig deep and keep focusing on my goals and doing what I need to do to make things happen. For me, it is currently 10:47 pm, and I just got home after traveling and attending events for 2 straight days. My throat is sore, and I am indeed EXHAUSTED. But I have things to do. I always tell myself I have the privilege not only to build my platform, but also to build
reallyflawed
Mar 202 min read


When You're Ready, I'm Here
She is gone. A friend that I had for 14 years, someone that I didn’t talk to every day, but someone I always knew was there. When I met her, we were starting new jobs, and we immediately hit it off. I don’t usually make fast friends, but she was different. She was ambitious, passionate, calm, and a single Mom of 2 boys who were growing and full of life. We could talk about anything, sports, being inappropriate together about the topics, giving our honest takes about life thin
reallyflawed
Mar 123 min read


Writing Without an Ending
More than captions. More than highlights. Just flawed, honest thoughts from someone learning how to balance content creation, responsibility, and real life.
reallyflawed
Feb 282 min read
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